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Sunday Thoughts on Living with Migraine: Balance and Harmony

SundayThoughtsGood morning, and happy Sunday to my extended Migraine and Headache family!

The past week gave me much to think about as I spent time in several Migraine groups on Facebook. There was so very much going on, including:

  • Wonderfully constructive conversations about diagnoses, treatments, and awareness.
  • Great questions asked, then answered by community members who truly care about helping each other.
  • The sharing of links to some truly splendid articles and blog posts.

Unfortunately, there was also a downside to some of the activity, including:

  • A heart-wrenching post from a young man who has lived a long time with chronic Migraine, is losing hope, and is talking about giving up.
  • Some genuinely nasty comments from people who disagreed with what someone else had said, but seemed unable to be civil about it.

These last two items frustrated me for two main reasons:

  1. Hope is our best tool for living with Migraine and other headache disorders. It gives us the strength we need when our treatments aren't working, and the burden of our disease/disorder seems especially heavy. We must cling to that hope and share it with others. There are some ground-breaking treatments in development for Migraine and Cluster Headaches. With help so close, this is not the time to lose hope or give up.
  2. I simply don't understand the nastiness. It hurts not only those on the receiving end, but those being nasty. When someone is needlessly nasty toward others, I can't help but think that they're deeply unhappy people. 

It all comes down to balance and harmony...

We will always have both joy and sadness, pain and relief, hope and despair. That's a basic fact of live we can't change. What matters is how we deal with sadness, pain, and despair. And it matters a great deal how we treat other people along the way. Being nasty is a good way to end up isolated and alone. 

We need to seek balance and harmony. If there are times when we're in pain or despair, we need to exercise caution in how we interact with others. If we're interacting in writing, such as participating in Facebook groups, we need to reread what we've written before posting. If it's unkind, edit it, or just don't post until we feel better. During such times, it's also perfectly fine to post, explaining how we're feeling, and get support from others.

I'm an administrator or moderator for several Facebook groups for people with Migraine and other Headache disorders, and it's difficult. Last week, at the same time that I was trying to reach out to someone in real trouble, I was also dealing with people who were being so nasty to other people that I wanted to reach right through my computer monitor and smack them.

To those of you who manage to stay kind and helpful when you're in pain yourself, bless you! To those of you who post nasty comments to others, please stop and think. You're hurting both others AND yourself. Please look for balance and harmony.

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Thoughts on Living with Migraine: Raise Awareness, Reduce Stigma

SundayThoughtsGood afternoon and happy Sunday to my Migraine and Headache family!

Living with Migraine, Cluster Headaches, NDPH, and other Headache disorders isn't for wimps! The physical burden alone can be debilitating and sometimes more than we think we can bear. Then there's the emotional burden — the grief of losing parts of our lives, the guilt for not being able to work or care for our families as we'd like to, the too-frequent feelings of hopelessness, and more. When we add the burden of the social stigma attached to these diseases/disorders, it's staggering.

All of that said, we have far more power over Migraine and other Headache disorders and their impact than we might think. I recently attended the American Headache Society's Annual Scientific Meeting in Boston, and am so excited and encouraged by the news of new treatments in development. Great progress is being made with four new CGRP Migraine treatments. One of them has now been submitted to the FDA for approval, and the other three are getting close. GammaCore's vagus nerve stimulator has now been approved for the acute treatment of episodic Cluster Headache. The ATI Neurostimulaton System is doing well in clinical trials, and I expect we'll see it win FDA approval for treating Cluster Headache soon. We still, of course, have a long way to go, but I'm very encouraged by all of these new developments.

Unfortunately, we haven't made as much progress in increasing public awareness of these diseases/disorders or in reducing the social stigma. There are many reasons for this, but I fully believe that part of the responsibility lies with us, the patients who live with them. If we sit back and expect others to raise awareness and reduce stigma for us, it will never happen. We must each stand up and speak out. We can't continue to hide if we want things to get better. Everyone who is able to read this is able to join in awareness activities to some extent. It can be as simple as putting awareness statements on your Facebook page, Tweeting or reTweeting, or simply sharing a good article we find. 

We're more than half-way through Migraine and Headache Awareness Month (MHAM), but there's still plenty of time for each of us to participate to the extent that we're able. Visit Migraine Ninja or my Facebook page if you don't know where to start. 

Here's a little cartoon I created for MHAM. You're welcome to post it and share it as long as you don't make any changes to it.

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If you're already involved in raising awareness and reducing stigma, THANK YOU! If not, what are you waiting for?

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